They believe they're flawed or unattractive. In fact, after almost three decades of working with couples and knowing what really goes on behind closed doors, I'm here to tell you that your guy isn't unique at all. When did you first give one? Yet the Bible once again dismantled my bad theology. And when the spouse with a lower sex drive doesn't understand this, it spells trouble for the marriage. Are you taking medication?

Again, this one may not be easy to open up about. I know that I am not the only one who has wrestled with this issue. Previous God Is in the Rain. When we do have sex, he won't touch certain parts of my body. It's annoying to her now. Log In Good to see you again.

You will also read about specific techniques for being more open about sex and resolving your sexual differences. Tell me about what it was like with Martin again. I am just overwhelmed after seeing the show that I am not the only wife crying herself to sleep at night because of rejection from my husband. What you really want to make a note of is how your partner talks about theirs, and if it seems like they've changed after making mistakes or bad decisions in their past. Ask a friend about your best qualities. So the HDS tries again to get through to his or her spouse.

You simply mistakenly chose someone with red flags. Sometimes your anxiety about the past leads you to do things that only add to your anxiety and alienate your partner. But now I feel I am losing the best years of my life, as well as my libido. Even when the shows' hosts specifically invited these men to call in, there were no calls. Rather than ruminate about the past, try doing everything you can to love and appreciate each other. Yet here I was essentially condemning my wife. You would have rejected them only if society allowed you to have individual preference.